You feel unheard.
Sometimes, you wonder if your partner knows you at all.
They seem to have no idea what you’re going through, no matter how hard you try to explain it.
You wish they could hear your thoughts and feelings, but it’s like there’s a wall between you.
The passion is gone.
You can’t remember the last time you went on a date or shared loving words with one another.
Intimacy is nonexistent, and it feels like you’ve just become roommates.
The only time you really interact is when you fight. There are always things to fight about.
You wonder if you are the problem.
When you look in the mirror, you don’t feel attractive or desirable anymore.
“Maybe I’m just not as appealing or interesting as I once was.”
You’re scared that your partner has grown bored of you.
It seems like nothing you do is ever appreciated.
No one sees the effort and pain you quietly put in daily to provide for your family.
“If you just give them everything they want,” you told yourself, “they’ll be happy.”
But no matter how much you do, it still feels like you’re in this alone.
You’ve sacrificed so much already…
Constantly prioritizing their interests over your own, only to be taken for granted…
Neglecting your needs to put them first time and again.
As much as you try to suppress it, the resentment is building inside you by the day.
The constant criticism and badgering…
Nothing you do is ever enough for them.
You assumed you would eventually get used to the snarky, sarcastic negativity, but it still hurts every time.
This relationship is robbing you of something vital, and ignoring it isn’t helping.
Something has to change.
You’re tired of feeling alone, exploited, devalued, and disrespected.
Unless you try another way, you feel destined to be stuck unnoticed and unhappy forever.
You don’t want to give up, but you’re unsure how to turn this mess around.
It’s time to create the
relationship you deserve.
Humans are evolutionarily designed to be social creatures.
And struggles in your relationship can affect every other aspect of your life.
You and your partner can create a new beginning. And I can help.
MS, LPC, CHT, RT
Hi, I’m Valery.
And I’m here to offer expert guidance in transitioning your relationship from struggling to thriving.
When you’re content in your relationship, the rest of your life will fall into place. People often ask me if I truly believe that the secret to success, health, and happiness is a strong relationship – and to that I answer a resounding “YES!”
Together, we’ll create a plan specifically for you and your needs. Through our work, you’ll learn the scientific formula for growing your love for one another and the trick to sustaining it even through challenging times.
If you and your partner are ready to put in the work, trust the process, and help each other, there’s a great chance you will make it through this and come out stronger on the other side.
I’m so glad that you’re here and ready to take the next step on this journey. Reach out now.