Let me ask you a silly question…
If you have a cookie jar in your kitchen, can you enjoy a cookie from your jar?
You would say, “Well… yes, those are my cookies in my jar,” right?
All you need to do is get up, go to the kitchen counter, reach for the jar, open it, and get the cookie. Simple steps.
Now let me ask you, can you enjoy the relationship you have in your home?
This is where most people would stumble. Many believe that getting a cookie from a jar and improving their relationship are unrelated. But what’s the difference?
Therapeutically speaking, they are the same. The only difference is your belief that you CAN get up and get the cookie from your jar, but you CAN’T do the same for your relationships.
But who told you that you can’t? You know that you need to take direct, clear steps to get the cookie from the jar. There are also steps to take to get the relationship you want.
What if there was another way?
You know what your partner needs to feel better; giving them affection, helping them around the house, allowing them time to see their friends. But for some reason, you choose not to provide any of those things to them. You treat them not how they need to be treated but how you believe they should be treated to feel loved.
Deep down, you know that once you take those steps to provide your person with what they need, your relationship will improve. But you choose not to act on it and not to take the cookie from the jar (so to speak.) Do you see the connection here?
Taking steps to improve your relationship is a lot of work, but no one else can do it for you.
Why is it so hard for you to support them?
This question is best approached through hypnotherapy because you may not be aware of what you’re doing.
Maybe you never had the chance to observe a healthy relationship growing up. Or maybe there’s a reason that you feel like you don’t deserve to be content.
The research shows that 80% of couples sabotage their relationships and don’t allow themselves to be happy.
I am here to help you.
Combining various therapeutic strategies, we’ll work to reprogram your mind and eliminate beliefs you naturally learned in childhood. Some of these statements are automatic, unproductive, and the reason you do things you do.
Some of them could be uncovered quickly, and some (usually the major ones) can only be uncovered with the tools that allow us to enter your subconscious.
I can’t wait to tend to your happiness and help you get the life you want.
If you are ready for a new chapter, email me at email@example.com or book an appointment below. Let’s get started!